Leave your old self behind...

Life is ever changing, time forever moving. When you relax to pass time, you are actually being left behind in terms of your development. What are your goals, what do you want from your life? 

We only achieve our goals, if we allow our entire being saturate that what we want. If you are thinking about it for an hour a day... it's like moving the magnifying glass around the page & only focusing it for 1 hour in the day. When you are looking to burn a hole through you need to live & breathe it... because it allows you to plow through the barrier that separates you from where you want to be. The fabric of life is a regenerative force & if you only do it for an hour a day, is akin to a dog chasing its tail... aka going nowhere in a hurry. You needs persistence, you need perseverance & you need focus. Who can stand in your way if you outwork everyone in your field? 

Victory is a state of being, which begins as a state of mind! You are in your current state of being because of your previous mind state. You are unsuccessful because of negative thinking, feeling of hopelessness, feeling defeated, before you begin something you already got a feeling you wont make it happen. Change it. What your mind will perceive you will achieve! Most people are scared of wanting success. Act without resistance,  move without hesitation & strive without effort... this is the inner victory which brings outer triumph. You are the captain of your vessel... you choose the crew, the co-ordinates & the messages that you adhere to. You & only you are to blame for where you are. Yes some people have contributed to where you are, but you have decided for them to take over the reigns of your ship. You are the captain & you should always have the final decision because you are going to live with your decisions. 

You don't know your potential yet. Don't listen to others that degrade you, don't listen if they say that you can't do it, it's impossible. These are people trying to change your coordinates, dismiss them & carry on. Life is a battlefield... how many people have you met vs the people you trust? You will see the ratio is ridiculous. Most people don't want what is best for you, so why the hell must you listen to them? You drive your own ship, most people go through life by listening to others, even people that don't have their best interest at heart. 

Don't search for the guru without when there is an even bigger guru within you!! You are all beings of mystery & of influence. Human beings are only aware & utilize 2%-5% of our entire capacity. What does this stat tell us? That we need to push the boundaries & what people say is real & final...is actually just the limit of their minds. Be bold, let your mind flow like water. Don't be afraid at what it sees, this is how you push the limit. Don't let people tell you what you must do, listen to your gut... your intuition will guide you!

All the best guys,
Happy Friday! :) 

How to get the girl you want...

Gentlemen, I shall lay out a set of laws that all men should follow if they want to get the girl they want. 

If you have split up with a girl which you have liked & she disappeared on you... move on like a man. You were the problem, not them... you created an air of zero attraction around you. You need to learn the right way. Guys, lets face it... men think women are from another planet... this is because most guys don't know how to tune into what turns women on...


Attraction:

Attraction begins in the mind. Let me tell you, your physical beauty is just the initial "pull" you guys have towards each other... I've seen many good looking guys screw up their chance by their nervous body reactions & the way they talk to a woman. Your mind & they way you carry yourself... is by far the most attractive assets that you have in your arsenal. What you are thinking is emitted into your immediate surroundings so when you walk into bars give off the air of being happy & secure with yourself. Don't look at anyone when you enter the room, just chat happily with your friends & make sure you are walking upright but relaxed. In life there is a flux that pervades everything... it's the balance that keeps the universe evenly poised... When you are not observing anyone, you become the observed. When you see a beautiful woman enter into a bar... she is strutting her fine self & not looking at a soul in the place...why? Because she is the one that is being observed & not doing the observing...that is for others. Know this well. Ye who is pursued, retreats & ye who retreats is pursued! Know this well. 

A loud mouth in the bar is an insecure moron that wants attention... he needs a hug & preferably from his mother. This is not how to create attraction. This is false confidence... A skilled warrior is not quick to wield his sword. A confident person has nothing to prove, yet old loud mouth is trying to prove to everyone how confident he is. He's not, he's insecure. 

When you eventually get a seat, sit comfortably & if you see a woman that you like the look of position your body towards her. When you go up to get the next round of drinks, don't look at her, look the other way, before glancing at her... when she looks at you, smile at her. Not a goofy ass smile, I nice warm polite smile. You don't know each other so keep it polite. When she smiles back (this is a massive indication that she wont be creeped out if you go up to her.) Do your own deductions... would you smile @ someone that you are unattracted to? 

She already is receptive to you so now the ball is in your court. When you approach her, keep it light & fluffy. No lame ass chit chat like; do you come around here often etc... this is frankly retarded, who cares anyway?! Say something say that you noticed her & you had to come to say hello. Introduce yourself...ask her what her name is ... then Tell her that you'd like to know her more but you can't right now because it's your friends birthday & you'll come back to talk to her. Walk away... yes walk away! Leave it at that. Remember the flux, ye who retreats gets pursued?! You have pursued her but then retreated. Too much pursuing of a woman & the attraction dies. She will remember a lovely interaction with you & she will be waiting for you to come back... she will be thinking of you. You will be just out of her reach. You're in sight but she can't have you. You are there yet unavailable. Diamonds are drip fed to the market to retain it's value! If something is easily available, your in the same bracket as trash. 

Guys, this is a game called romance. It's invigorating. It's what we are meant to be doing. Our male species have evolved through the millenia by knowing how to attract women. They played the game of romance & they played it well. When you are attracting a woman, you also feel attraction for her. It's a great feeling, but we must temper it guys. Extra strong never lasts long. 

Turn offs:

• Literally blowing up the poor woman's phone - Use your discretion but don't txt a girl a million times. Even if she is keen, keep it light & playful but end the conversation. Remember the flux? Ye who retreats will be pursued. 
• Being needy - Too much pursuing. If you really like a girl, tell yourself to hang back. It's for your own sake & you will avoid suffocating the poor girl. Give her some space & you need it too. Security is a mans best trait. 
• Making a woman feel bad about herself. If you have something to say, make sure its something positive. If a woman is fretting, be calm. If she is rude, just leave. Don't ever get drawn into negative arguments because it affects your mind state. Be the man, be calm show direction & be positive. 
• Being indecisive - This is the plague that is about to wipe out modern man. I've seen a guy take 15 mins to decide what chicken to have @ KFC with his woman. Know what you want & go for it without fear. You don't need permission from anyone to have what you want. 
• Being too available - do you like a Nissan or a Lamborghini? Which one has more in circulation? If you are too available you are saying to the woman that you are of no value. She will think, "I can do whatever I want because I know he will be there whenever I need some drinks or a meal."
• Don't think material possessions are a turn on - your possessions are for you & nobody else. You let the conversations happen naturally, show her you are a driven individual, that you're great company... be funny & happy. We only get one crack of the whip so why not do it with a smile on your face?

That's it for today's installment gents. 

All the best

Brad

Rule No:1 - Know Thyself

Rule No:1 - Know thyself!

The statement of knowing thyself has a rabbit hole of insurmountable size associated with it. It's the most important step on the path of self discovery. Consider this statement from a physical (macro spectral) view of reality & as a spiritual, metaphysical (micro or mono spectral) view of reality.

If you think we are only single layered physical beings, then you have never given serious thought into who you are. Rule number 1 in life... Know Thyself! How are you going to develop your intuition & your feel for the rhythm/flux of life if you do not know yourself first? A mere animal is acutely attuned to the rhythm of the universe, it finds a mate, it fulfills its role perfectly & yet human beings are committing suicide, because they are so disconnected from the rhythm of life & the multiverse. 

In the beginning there was prima materia. Modern theory calls this prima materia energy but whatever guise or name you want to call it, this is the creative substance that has taken on the different forms we see around us... planets, stars, humans, animals, plants, rocks, lava ...the list is endless. It is the infinite ocean of power that everything plugs into & feeds off of. Everything is 1st prima materia & then physical form. If you think you are only a physical body, you are in for a hell of a surprise when you leave this physical existence. 

Who are we?

Obvious answer is human beings. Yes we are but not entirely...We are beings of untold mystery & influence... yet we get limited by our physical forms. Human beings only access about 3% - 5% of their total capacity, this is because we believe we something mundane instead of a bona fide mystery. 

"Reality is merely an illusion, albeit, a very persistent one."   Albert Einstein

How are boundaries pushed? By beings daring enough to challenge the status quo. Reality is merely a cloak & under the bonnet everything is prima materia (energy). Life is about awareness, awareness of who we are & then of our surroundings. Be bold, be daring... why should physical death scare you when you know that you are a multi-dimensional being? Like a worm dying in a crysalis, but is reborn as a butterfly. This is nature laying the secret of death bare for us all to see. Do not fear, on the contrary... be happy that you had this existence before carrying on the endless adventure of life. Prima materia never dies, it morphs into different forms but will never perish. It is wisdom to know others...it is Mastery to know oneself. The Master of men is powerful, the Master of himself is even greater. 

"Victory is a state of being, which begins as a state of mind. The one cannot help but follow the other."       Old warrior quote

We influence our immediate surroundings by our state of mind. What we think is emitted into the fibers of our bodies & our immediate surroundings. Be bold & be brave. On our planet money has been given the same importance as air. We need it for homes, transportation, food, enjoyment, electricity... everything. Therefore victory in this day & age is equated to physical wealth. There is a dam that separates us from success. Most of the population are on the dry side of the dam & an infinite amount of wealth lays waiting for anyone who dares to get it. How do we get it? You drill through the massive dam wall. When you have something that you love doing, immerse your entire being in it daily. Focus on improvement every single day & spend every waking moment immersing yourself to getting what you want. This way you drilling @ 1 specific spot. On the dam wall facing many people have many attempts at making it through, but with no success. This is a failure of persistence, when you want something, nothing should stand in your way. Choose what you love doing & drill the crap outta that wall until the water comes gushing out! Why do you think only 5% of people have all the money in the world? They are drillers that have made it through. Some have tried but never persisted. Others haven't even bothered at all. Get up & go do it. Be whatever you love.